Instead of always pushing through our cant’s, or beating ourselves up for having them, there is a beautiful third option ... which is to start truly connecting with the parts of you that are saying no.
"The reality is, I like imperfection. You take away from the world when you're not yourself. Whatever is unique and special about you was designed by God. And when you try to be someone else, we don't get you. Who knows what you would have contributed to the world had you just been yourself, if you had just celebrated who you are and just walked boldly?"